Summary
This is my conversation with Jenessa Schwartz. She’s 37 years old, and she’s living with stage 4 colon cancer. She’s also my niece, my sister Cyndi’s daughter. Jenessa has two kids under 10. She was the Womb For Hire (her words) for two adorable surrogate kids, which is one of the menschiest things a person can do in this life. She’s a middle school language arts teacher, a musical theater aficionado, a giant nerd, and beloved to her huge, dear circle of friends and family. And she’ll be on chemo or some form of treatment for her cancer for the rest of her life.

Major themes:
Living with stage 4 colon cancer; colorectal cancer and metastatic cancer; HIPEC surgery; surrogacy; parenting and talking to children about cancer; Jewish culture, teaching, and family life; life with a terminal illness; crisis points and how we make choices to change our lives because of them; relationship changes in the context of a crisis; the epidemic of young people with late-stage colorectal cancer; favorite podcasts; why you should get a colonoscopy right now.
References:
The Major-General’s Song from The Pirates of Penzance (Gilbert and Sullivan, 1879)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major-General%27s_Song
The Jewish festival of Purim
https://www.theweek.co.uk/91775/purim-2018-what-is-purim-and-how-is-it-celebrated
Bill’s Café in San Jose’s Rose Garden
http://www.billscafe.com/locations/the-rose-garden
What’s a peritoneum?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peritoneum
HIPEC surgery procedure
https://hipectreatment.com/the-hipec-procedure/
Ileostomy
https://www.ostomy.org/ileostomy/
NED means No Evidence of Disease.
Living with a chemo port
https://www.webmd.com/colorectal-cancer/features/advanced-colon-cancer-port#1
On younger people with late-stage colon cancer
https://www.webmd.com/colorectal-cancer/news/20190607/more-young-adults-getting-dying-from-colon-cancer
and
https://www.ascopost.com/issues/june-25-2019/solving-the-mystery-of-why-colorectal-cancer-is-on-the-rise-in-young-adults
What does a spleen do? (Turns out, it’s part of a mammal’s immune system and recycles red blood cells, stores fresh blood, and recycles iron into the bloodstream.)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spleen
A siddur is a Jewish prayer book used for Shabbat (Sabbath) and daily prayer.
https://www.britannica.com/topic/siddur
Shout out to Guy Raz and Mindy Thomas.
Jenessa’s fave podcasts to listen to with the kids:
Wow in the World, Brains On, Smash Boom Best, Story Pirates
Adult faves:
Radiolab, The Allusionist, Ask Me Another, Wait Wait Don’t Tell Me
I mention that Helen Zaltzman (The Allusionist) now has a new Veronica Mars podcast, which I thought Jenessa would be excited about. And she is.
Read Jenessa’s blogs:
My Colon Cancer: Semicolon, Not Full-Stop https://notfullstop.wordpress.com
Womb for Hire – Thoughts on becoming a surrogate mother. https://wombforhire.wordpress.com
Jenessa also got press on her surrogacy at
J, the Jewish News Weekly.
Jenessa’s recommended cancer research and care organizations
Camp Kesem
https://www.campkesem.org
The Colorectal Cancer Alliance
https://www.ccalliance.org
And if you want to donate to Jenessa’s Blue Star Tribute page at Colorectal Cancer Alliance, that link is here
https://fundraise.ccalliance.org/blue-star-tributes/TeamJenessa
Once you do that, send me an email at nextthingpod@gmail.com so I can get you your super cool Team Jenessa wristband!
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Banana peel by Max Ronnersjö.
http://maxronnersjo.tumblr.com
Theme and interstitial music by Jon Schwartz. http://twitter.com/schwartstack